xiaopa25:

to my friend :)

durkin62:

molecularbiologistproblems:

shychemist:

chroniclesofachemist:

rizuno:

we always say it’s our daughters, our wives, our sisters who are getting raped, we never say that it’s our sons, our fathers ,our brothers who are doing the raping.

Get fucked, you’re making it sound like males are the only gender committing rape.

While I couldn’t find statistics on female to male rape, I imagine it must be quite low since when it happens a news story is made about it. Its clear by the evidence that men are by far the majority of the offenders of rape.

9 of every 10 rape victims were female in 2003.2

About 3% of American men — or 1 in 33 — have experienced or attempted or completed rape in their lifetime.1

Source: [x]

This is not to say that every man is a rapist, but merely that of those that do rape are overwhelmingly male.

So yes, focusing on teaching boys and men that rape and sexual assault is wrong and terrible is overwhelmingly a good idea.

Although female to male rape is certainly rare (although it does happen), a more common overlooked tragedy is male to male rape, which this anecdote from Lizzie the Lezzie shows us how important the absence of education on this matter is:

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Rates of male homosexual abuse (physical, sexual, and emotional) are overwhelmingly high. However, as we (yes, I am a gay molecular biologist) only compose 10% of the population, this matter does not get much attention. Even more importantly, the fact remains: you do not need to be homosexual to be raped by another man. Unfortunately, the way our society looks down upon homosexuals, many heterosexual men who are raped by men do not report the crime because they are afraid that it will make people think that they are gay, and that is just not true.

To my followers: I am sorry that this is not molecular biology, science, or academia-related, but this is a very important matter to me. If you are in fact homophobic, please do not follow my blog.

Its only “rare” because it isn’t classified as rape in this country unless the victim is penetrated. A female forcing a male to have non-consensual sex isn’t considered rape here.

Defining male rape victims out of existence

But here’s what happens what we change the definition of rape from “having something shoved in you” to “forced to have non-consensual sex.”

Boys in juvy raped by women. (94% are by women yet only 40% of the staff is female.)

Page 18- men are victims of rape in 27-50% of cases.

Man raped and forced to pay child support.

Study of 7,667 university students from 38 sites: 3.0% of men reported forced sex - See more at: 

12% of women reported ever using force strategy while 43% reported using a coercion 92% reported using a seduction initiate sex

Military rape effects men more than women.

Same study that says 1-4 women will be abused says 1-6 men will.

Men coerced into sex.

Women are more likely to rape inmates.

15% of male prisoners are raped every year. Putting America to be the first country ever to have a recorded higher number of male rapes than females.

97% of teachers punished for sexual misconduct are men, but only 57% of the acts committed are by men.

75% of homeless boys are abused my women. Not 75% of a abuse cases, 75 % of all homeless boys.

65% of male rape victims are assumed to be liars by professionals.

Majority of male rapists were victims of female sexual assault.

Study on female sex offenders shows they abuse and cause just as much harm as men.

Despite all of this females make up less than a half of one percent of those incarcerated for rape.

Men raped about as much as women in America.

Holy Mary Mother of God. Jesus FUCKING Christ.

For the thousandth FUCKING time

this post is not an awareness post about how men can be raped by women, nor is it a post about male victims. All the rest of tumblr is free to make those posts. Stop fucking hijacking the conversation

THIS POST IS ABOUT THE LANGUAGE WE USE WHEN WE SPEAK ABOUT RAPE, THE OVERWHELMING MAJORITY OF WHICH IS COMMITTED BY MEN AGAINST WOMEN. THEY COMMIT IT AND WE AS A SOCIETY, A COUNTRY A FUCKING SPECIES 

DO NOT HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR CRIME

AND THE LANGUAGE WE USE REFLECTS THAT

IT’S NEVER MY FATHER MY BROTHER MY SON MY HUSBAND MY BOYFRIEND IS A RAPIST

IT’S ALWAYS MY POOR DAUGHTER SISTER MOTHER WIFE GIRLFRIEND GOT RAPED

THINK ABOUT THAT

ABOUT WHAT THAT MEANS

WHEN YOU COME BACK TO ME

AND ALL YOU’VE GOT IS ‘BUT MEN’ 

YOU’RE MISSING THE FUCKING POINT

SO GO BACK 

AND THINK ABOUT IT SOME MORE

Don’t be so vain to think that you ruined me,
that you wrecked me,
destroyed me. 

I am the only one who has the power to do that.

— Amanda HelmThe Day I Learned That I was Broken

Sciles + same green shirt (✿◠‿◠) 

miggoo:

I’M ON HOLIDAY YES time to draw gaywolf

It’s a triskele. The spirals mean different things: past, present, future; mother, father, child. Know what it means to me? Alpha, Beta, Omega? That’s right. It’s a spiral. Reminds us that we can all rise to one or fall to the other. Betas can become Alphas, but Alphas can also fall to Betas or even Omegas.

"He looks like his mother."

deludedisthenewreality:

derek ‘i totally meant to do that’ hale (。♥‿♥。)

I’m seeing a little Stiles in him now. :D

Still for sale on the Tyler Hoechlin Bday Project!

Rizuno for sale

Sorta forgot about this, sorry starlings.

I’m heavily medicated right now. 

Anyway I write ok, I think. I would love to write the sterek of your dreams! I’m also willing to go over 10k too.  

Here are some samples of my writing

Tumblr fics

AO3

geeky-sova:

This post is to celebrate birthday of a very special someone :)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY REGAN! ♥

Me and Mako decided to do a little collab for this occasion.

You can find her awesome fic HERE and this is my little pic to go with it.

[pic based on this photo]

© TH